My Month of Solo Travel in Review

Before I left, a few people asked me, “What do you hope to gain from this trip?”. Honestly, just completing this trip seemed like a big accomplishment (I would have never imagined doing something like this a few years back). I didn’t expect some Eat Pray Love sort of self discovery … but of course I’d take some Love if it came along ;) and Eat, hah, that’s inevitable! Anyways, here are the lessons I learned:

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 1. Figure out all directions beforehand

For me, the biggest stress of travelling is getting from point A to B. So before I left, I figured out how to get to hostels, airports, and bus/train stations. Not only did I write down the directions, I also took screenshots of the maps. My whole trip ended up being stress free.

2. If you don’t like being alone, you don’t have to be alone

If you are on the extrovert side of the spectrum, like me, and truly dislike being alone, you will find the confidence you need to go and make friends. Yes, there were times where I felt awkward putting myself out there, but for the most part it was easy breezy beautiful meeting new people. In many places I’d wake up expecting to spend the day alone, but then I’d be invited to join someone else’s plans or someone would ask if they could tag along with my plans. So many people are in the same boat as you!

3. Sometimes you just need to be spontaneous and change your plans

In Barcelona, I was set to leave after 5 nights. On the last night I was too sad to leave the city and all my new friends, so I made an impulsive decision to skip my nonrefundable train ticket to Madrid and stay an extra two nights. I am still so happy with this decision. Yes, it cost me money to get another train ticket (and pay for the two nights I missed in Madrid), but it was 100% worth it.

4. Mixed dorms are generally more social

Other than in Galway, the female-only hostel rooms that I stayed in were extremely quiet and anti-social. My presumption is that many girls who select female-only rooms tend to be more reserved/shy (though this could just be my experience). That being said, a benefit of a female-only room is: if you have a crush on a guy in your hostel, he wont have to see you in all your no-makeup/drool-while-you-sleep glory! ;)

5.  Free hostel dinners and free pub-crawls are key

As mentioned in pretty much every post as of late, look for hostels that offer free dinners. The nightly dinner works like magic when it comes to making friends at your hostel. Bonus if there are pub crawls after dinner, nothing like alcohol to officiate your friendships! (Drink responsibly folks).

6. If you go out at night, have a “designated buddy”

As lame as a “designated buddy” sounds, the reality is when you are a girl you should not be walking home alone in the middle of the night in a foreign city. Even if this means staying out a little longer when you are tired and ready to sleep, better safe than sorry. Just find someone you trust and lookout for each other.

7. Couldn’t be bothered with social media

You’d think I’d be all about constantly posting to Instagram, making everyone back home “jealous” of me … but to be honest I hardly wanted to touch my phone. I truly wanted to live in the moment and be present. The technology detox was nice.

8. You will suffer from exhaustion. Take a night or day off just to relax.

This hit me hard in Madrid. When you are touring cities all day and going out nearly every night, you are prone to be hit hard with exhaustion as well. Take care of yourself! When I arrived in Portugal I knew I needed a break, so I skipped the hostel dinner and went straight to bed, knowing that if I met cool people I’d probably be staying up late with them. The next day, after a good rest, I started socializing.

9. Always keep a litre (or more) of water by your bed

Stay hydrated! Whether you are roaming a city all day, drinking with friends, suffering from a traveler’s cold, or dealing with the summer heat, always keep lots of water by your bed. Load up that hydration station! You will be so grateful when  you wake up in the middle of the night an have that glorious bottle of water next to you.

10.  Keep in touch with the people you meet

When you travel you meet like-minded people from around the world, and many of these connections turn into great friendships, so it’d be silly not to keep in touch. I’ve been really lucky with some of the connections I’ve made abroad. Yes, I suck at keeping in touch on a regular basis, but when I meet up with my long distance friends, it’s like no time has passed.

11. Finally, travelling solo is not that big of a deal

Leaving home, I felt like a noble hero for going on this big adventure by myself. No one could believe that I’d do something like this. To them, it seemed scary (and probably unappealing) to travel solo. During my trip I never felt scared or uncomfortable. Plus, when you meet so many people doing the same thing as you (and sometimes for much longer), you realize your experience isn’t this rare gem. It’s actually quite common!

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I’d love to hear any lessons that you learned traveling solo! If you haven’t traveled alone before, I hope this makes it seem less daunting!

 

64 thoughts on “My Month of Solo Travel in Review”

  2. rebbit7 says:
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    Sounds like you had an amazing month! I’ve done my fair share of solo traveling; you’ve hit the key points that I’ve thought of, but I would add staying safe as well. In terms of keeping your wits about your surroundings in reputably dangerous cities (e.g. Marseille) and knowing what to do if something bad were to happen. Good thoughts, otherwise, and I hope to see more travel posts from you!

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  7. Rosie says:
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    Sound advice there, when I travelled solo (and even when I travel with others) I also find it handy to have contact numbers/email addresses for hostels too so I can always contact them if I get lost en route/will be late!

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  8. janesplaining says:
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    I love your tip about printing your directions ahead of time! I didn’t do this in Thailand and was horrified when everything was in another language and I didn’t get any cell service X_X Definitely a good tip to keep in mind for any traveler!

    And I love the rest of the post too. Sounds like you had a great time!

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  11. roundtriptravel says:
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    Wow! This is very inspiring. It’s easy to base our travel plans and even day-to-day decisions on others’ thoughts and opinions. This is such an encouragement to “do you” and find your own adventure! Do you have any tips for safety?

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    • Samantha Faloon says:
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      Thank you so much! You just reminded me of a lesson I should have added (about having a designated buddy when you go out at night) I also brought a cross body purse and always kept my hand over the zipper when we were around lots of people to avoid pick pocketing. I felt very safe on my trip so other than common sense safety tips those would be the main ones :)

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  14. mytablesofcontent says:
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    Hey Samantha!
    First of all, I love this latest post! I’ve always been a little nervous traveling by myself, but this post makes me want to try it! I also wanted you to know that I really have enjoyed reading your blog. I nominated your blog for the Sunshine Blogger Awards so others can see how inspiring your blog is! You can check out the details here: https://mytablesofcontent.wordpress.com/2016/07/30/the-sunshine-blogger-awards/

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  15. lightravellerkate says:
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    Sounds like good advice. I travel full time alone. As my travel involves house sitting challenges can come in unexpected ways. But then they can be wonderful opportunities for growth and evolution. Its good to get lost sometimes. Thanks for liking my blog

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  24. annnisanoor says:
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    Interesting articles! I did my solo traveling to Bali last year, and the best part of it I get to know more local peoples, talk to them befriend with then. While traveling with friends usually you’re to busy with our own group and not paying enough attention to the interesting locals ;)

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    • Samantha Faloon says:
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      I love meeting locals! But I suppose the friends I made in the hostels weren’t necessarily locals (though the hostel workers sometimes were) but at least I got to befriend people form around the world :)

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  25. Ruth says:
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    For sure the hardest part of traveling alone for me is not knowing where I’m going. Getting lost is stressful even if you have a buddy. If you’re by yourself, it’s disastrous. Good tips about figuring out directions beforehand.

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  30. simply ieva says:
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    Great advice, and so true for any traveler! Spontaneity and no need for social media truly resonated with me. Keeping your mind open and less phone checking add to the experience of traveling…

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  31. Vonnie says:
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    All female dorm??? I haven’t seen that in my results yet. Interesting but I did stay in an all girls dorm but that was college. Great points, Samantha. Thanks for stopping by :)

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  35. Carlo Tuzon says:
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    I would love to try this out one day! Though I might settle to go for a solo trip on cheaper countries to save on money. Haha. I’m in my early twenties and saving could quite be a challenge. Still, I feel you when you said that going away for solo is already an accomplishment in itself. Great post!! I’ll be sure to follow you and keep myself updated of your future travels! Cheers!

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